About the song
That’s When She Started to Stop Loving You: A Country Ballad of Heartbreak and Regret
In the realm of country music, few names resonate with the same level of heartfelt emotion and enduring popularity as Conway Twitty. With his rich, resonant voice and poignant storytelling, Twitty captivated audiences for decades, leaving behind a legacy of timeless classics that continue to touch hearts today. Among his vast repertoire of hits, “That’s When She Started to Stop Loving You” stands as a poignant ballad that delves into the depths of heartbreak and regret.
Released in 1969, “That’s When She Started to Stop Loving You” marked a turning point in Twitty’s career, propelling him to even greater stardom and cementing his status as a country music icon. The song’s success can be attributed to its relatable narrative, which captures the universal pain of a love slowly fading away.
As the song opens, the narrator paints a picture of a once-thriving relationship, where love was abundant and affection flowed freely. However, as the verses unfold, a subtle shift occurs, marked by Twitty’s emotive vocals. The narrator recounts the subtle signs of his partner’s waning affection, the missed opportunities, and the unspoken words that hinted at a love on the brink of collapse.
The chorus delivers the song’s heart-wrenching message: “That’s when she started to stop loving you.” These simple yet powerful words encapsulate the realization that love, once a beacon of hope and happiness, is now slowly slipping away. The narrator’s voice cracks with emotion as he grapples with the acceptance of this painful truth.
The bridge offers a glimmer of hope, a desperate plea to rekindle the flame that once burned so brightly. The narrator begs for a second chance, a chance to mend the broken pieces and salvage the remnants of their love. However, as the song fades, the lingering notes suggest that his pleas may fall on deaf ears.
“That’s When She Started to Stop Loving You” is a masterpiece of country storytelling, a song that resonates with anyone who has experienced the pain of a love lost. Twitty’s masterful delivery, coupled with the song’s poignant lyrics, creates an unforgettable listening experience that lingers long after the final notes have faded. It is a testament to his enduring legacy as a country music legend, a singer who could capture the deepest emotions and translate them into songs that touched the very core of the human experience.
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Lyrics
“That’s When She Started To Stop Loving You”
Does she seem a little cold when you love her
Does she turn away when you hold her tight
Just search your soul and you will discover
How you hurt her, night after night.And when was the first time she begged you to love her
But you turned away and acted like a fool
And when was the first time she lay there and cried
Well, that’s when she started to stop loving you.Do you wonder why she’s turning to another
And if you love her you’d better tell her so
‘Cause she’s finding out that anyone will love her
And it won’t be long ’till you’ll have to let her go.And when was the first time she begged you to love her
But you turned away and acted like a fool
And when was the first time she lay there and cried
Well, that’s when she started to stop loving you…