About the song
Background:
- Released in 1966, “Solitary Man” was Neil Diamond’s debut single as a recording artist.
- Prior to this, he had success writing songs for others, but “Solitary Man” marked his arrival as a solo performer.
- The song was recorded in late January 1966 and released on Bang Records in April of that year.
Themes:
- The central theme is loneliness and the desire for love. The lyrics depict a man longing for connection and companionship (“I’ve been searchin’ for a city, and a girl to call my own”).
- Some interpretations connect the song to Diamond’s own experiences. He reportedly said in interviews years later that the song was autobiographical, reflecting his feelings of isolation during his early songwriting years.
- The song’s themes resonated with audiences, making it a hit and establishing Diamond as a relatable artist.
Additionally:
- “Solitary Man” remains a fan favorite and a staple of Diamond’s concerts.
- It’s been covered by other artists like Johnny Cash and Chris Isaak.
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Lyrics
Melinda was mine‘Til the time that I found herHolding Jim, loving himThen Sue came along, loved me strongThat’s what I thoughtMe and Sue, but that died too
Don’t know that I willBut until I can find meThe girl who’ll stayAnd won’t play games behind meI’ll be what I amA solitary man, solitary man
I’ve had it to hereBein’ where love’s a small wordPart-time thing, paper ringI know it’s been doneHavin’ one girl who’ll love meRight or wrong, weak or strong
Don’t know that I willBut until I can find meThe girl who’ll stayAnd won’t play games behind meI’ll be what I amA solitary man, solitary man
Don’t know that I willBut until I can find meThe girl who’ll stayAnd won’t play games behind meI’ll be what I amA solitary manSolitary manSolitary manSolitary man