About the song
Dwight Yoakam’s “It Only Hurts When I Cry”: A Honky-Tonk Heartbreak Anthem
Dwight Yoakam is a name synonymous with traditional country music, and his song “It Only Hurts When I Cry” is a prime example of why. Released in 1991 as part of his album If There Was a Way, this track is a classic honky-tonk ballad that explores the complexities of heartbreak.
The title, “It Only Hurts When I Cry”, is a simple yet poignant statement that encapsulates the song’s central theme. The lyrics, co-written by Yoakam and country legend Roger Miller, paint a vivid picture of a man grappling with the emotional turmoil of a failed relationship. The protagonist acknowledges the pain he’s feeling but finds solace in the idea that the hurt is only temporary.
Musically, “It Only Hurts When I Cry” is a quintessential honky-tonk number. The driving rhythm, twangy guitar, and pedal steel guitar create a classic country sound that is both nostalgic and upbeat. The song’s arrangement is simple yet effective, allowing Yoakam’s powerful vocals to take center stage.
Yoakam’s performance is nothing short of iconic. His distinctive baritone voice, combined with his signature phrasing and delivery, gives the song a raw and authentic feel. The way he sings the line “It only hurts when I cry” is both heartbreaking and hopeful, capturing the emotional complexity of the song.
“It Only Hurts When I Cry” has endured as a classic for several reasons. First, the song’s universal theme of heartbreak resonates with people of all ages and backgrounds. Second, the music is both catchy and emotionally resonant, making it a perfect choice for those who appreciate traditional country music. And finally, Yoakam’s performance is simply unforgettable, making him one of the most influential country artists of his generation.
Beyond its musical merits, “It Only Hurts When I Cry” also holds historical significance. It helped to solidify Yoakam’s reputation as a champion of traditional country music and showcased his ability to blend classic sounds with contemporary sensibilities. The song’s success paved the way for other artists to explore similar themes and styles.
If you’re looking for a country song that captures the essence of heartbreak and resilience, then look no further than “It Only Hurts When I Cry”. It’s a timeless piece of music that continues to be enjoyed by fans of traditional country music.
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Lyrics
The only time I feel the pain
Is in the sunshine or the rain
And I don’t feel no hurt at all
Unless you count when teardrops fall
I tell the truth ‘cept when I lie
It only hurts me when I cry
You couldn’t tell it by the smile
But my recovery took awhile
I worked for days and nights on end
Just to walk and talk again
You can’t believe the time it takes
To heal a heart once it breaks
The only time I feel the pain
Is in the sunshine or the rain
And I don’t feel no hurt at all
Unless you count when teardrops fall
I tell the truth ‘cept when I lie
It only hurts me when I cry
Oh maybe every now and then
I have a small heartache again
You wouldn’t know to look at me
There’s tiny scars that you can’t see
It was a struggle to survive
I’m probably lucky I’m alive
The only time I feel the pain
Is in the sunshine or the rain
And I don’t feel no hurt at all
Unless you count when teardrops fall
I tell the truth ‘cept when I lie
And it only hurts me when I cry
I tell the truth ‘cept when I lie
And it only hurts me when I cry