About the song
“Victim of Love” by the Eagles, released in 1976 on their iconic Hotel California album, delves into the complexities and disillusionment of romantic relationships.
Background:
- Though credited to the entire band, the song is primarily attributed to Don Felder, Don Henley, and Glenn Frey. Interestingly, lead vocalist Don Henley did not sing on the track; instead, guitarist Don Felder took over vocal duties.
- The song’s creation was somewhat contentious, with Felder feeling his contributions were undervalued by the rest of the band. This internal tension mirrors some of the song’s themes about fractured relationships.
Themes:
- Destructive Love: The lyrics paint a picture of a toxic relationship where the protagonist is entangled with a manipulative and unfaithful partner. The repeated line “Victim of love” emphasizes their inability to break free, despite recognizing the harm being done.
- Deception and Betrayal: The song hints at infidelity and broken promises. Lines like “You say he’s a liar and he put out your fire, how come you still got his gun in your hand?” suggest a lingering attachment to the betrayer.
- Loss of Innocence: There’s a sense of disillusionment and lost naivety. The protagonist seems to have been through the wringer of love and has learned harsh lessons about trust and vulnerability.
- Power Dynamics: The lyrics touch upon the power imbalance within the relationship. The partner seems to hold sway, leaving the protagonist feeling trapped and powerless.
Overall, “Victim of Love” is a raw and unflinching exploration of the darker side of romance. Its themes of betrayal, manipulation, and codependency resonate with anyone who has experienced the pain of a toxic relationship.
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Lyrics
What kind of love have you got?You should be home but you’re notA room full of noise and dangerous boysStill makes you thirsty and hotI heard about you and that manThere’s just one thing I don’t understandYou say he’s a liar and he put out your fireHow come you still got his gun in your hand?Victim of love
I see a broken heartYou got your stories to tellVictim of loveIt’s such an easy part
And you know how to play it so well
Some people never come cleanI think you know what I mean, ohYou’re walkin’ the wire pain and desireLooking for love in betweenTell me your secrets I’ll tell you mineThis ain’t no time to be coolAnd tell all your girlfriends
You been around the world friendsThat talk is for losers and fools
Victim of loveI see a broken heartI could be wrong but I’m not no I’m notVictim of loveWe’re not so far apartShow me what kind of love have you got?Victim of loveI see a broken heartI could be wrong but I’m notVictim of loveWe’re not so far apartWhat kind of love have you got?Victim of love
You’re just a victim of loveI could wrong but I’m not no I’m notVictim of loveNow you’re a victim of loveWhat kind of love have you got?(hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo)What kind of love have you got?(hoo-hoo-hoo-hoo)What kind of love have you got?