About the song
“It Hurts Like Hell” by the iconic Aretha Franklin is a soul-stirring ballad that stands as a testament to the Queen of Soul’s unparalleled ability to convey deep emotion through her voice. Released in 1995 as part of the soundtrack for the film Waiting to Exhale, this song is a poignant exploration of heartbreak and emotional pain, making it an unforgettable contribution to both the film and Franklin’s illustrious career.
Part of a Cultural Phenomenon
The song is featured on the Grammy-winning Waiting to Exhale: Original Soundtrack Album, which was released on November 14, 1995. Curated and produced by Babyface, the soundtrack became a cultural phenomenon, celebrating themes of love, resilience, and sisterhood within the African-American community. The album brought together some of the most powerful female voices of the time, including Whitney Houston, Mary J. Blige, and Toni Braxton. “It Hurts Like Hell” fit perfectly into this mosaic, offering a soulful anthem for anyone who has ever endured the agony of love lost.
A Masterclass in Emotion
Lyrically, “It Hurts Like Hell” is an ode to the emotional aftermath of a failed relationship. With lines such as, “Why does it hurt so bad? Why do I feel so sad?” the song captures the universal pain of heartbreak in a way that resonates deeply with listeners. Franklin’s delivery elevates the already powerful lyrics, turning them into a masterclass in emotional expression. Her rich, soaring vocals glide effortlessly over the track’s lush orchestration, drawing listeners into the depths of despair while simultaneously offering solace in shared experience.
Babyface’s Midas Touch
The track’s production by Babyface, one of the most accomplished songwriters and producers of the era, adds an extra layer of sophistication. Known for his ability to craft timeless ballads, Babyface provides a soft, piano-driven arrangement that allows Franklin’s voice to take center stage. The string sections and gentle backing harmonies enhance the song’s dramatic quality, creating a perfect marriage of melody and sentiment.
Social and Cultural Impact
“It Hurts Like Hell” resonated with audiences at a time when the themes of Waiting to Exhale—love, heartbreak, and personal growth—were at the forefront of cultural conversations. The film and its soundtrack gave a voice to the complexities of relationships, particularly from the perspective of Black women, making the song an important piece of the larger narrative. Franklin’s contribution brought an air of gravitas and authenticity to the album, reminding audiences of her status as a musical legend.
Legacy
Although it didn’t become one of Franklin’s chart-topping hits, “It Hurts Like Hell” remains a cherished gem within her vast catalog. It showcases her ability to adapt to contemporary musical styles while staying true to her soulful roots. For fans of the Queen of Soul, the song is a poignant reminder of her unmatched ability to channel raw emotion and connect with listeners on a deeply personal level.
Whether you’re revisiting the Waiting to Exhale soundtrack or exploring Aretha Franklin’s timeless music, “It Hurts Like Hell” is a song that lingers long after the last note fades. It’s a heartfelt anthem for anyone who has felt the sting of love lost and a powerful reminder of why Aretha Franklin will forever be the Queen of Soul.
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Lyrics
[Intro]
Oh baby
Ohhhhh
Oh baby
Ohhhhh
Oh babe[Verse 1]
Love was always supposed to be
Something wonderful to me
To watch it grow inside yourself
To feel your heart beside itself[Chorus]
Sometimes it hurts to love so bad
(When you know you’ve given all you can)
Sometimes it hurts to even laugh
(You do your best but it’s still much too bad)
Sometimes the pain is just too much
And it hurts like hell
That’s the way it feels[Verse 2]
True love
It has no hiding place
It’s not something you just put away
It’s always there inside of you
Ohhh, and it shows in everything you do[Chorus]
Sometimes it hurts to love so bad
(When you know you’ve given it your best)
Sometimes it hurts to even laugh
(You feel a thousand miles from happiness)
Sometimes the pain is just too much
And it hurts like hell
That’s the way it feels[Bridge]
Here we are, the two of us
So full of love, so little trust
But dying for some tenderness
Ooohhh, but too afraid to take the step[Chorus]
Sometimes it hurts to love so bad
(When you know what it can put you through)
Sometimes it hurts to even laugh
(There’s nothing funny if it’s killing you)
Sometimes the pain is just too much
And it hurts like hell
That’s the way it feels[Verse 3]
I know if there is any chance
For us to find our happiness
We’ve got to learn to let it go
Ohhh oh, forget all the pain we knew[Outro]
Sometimes it hurts to love so bad
Sometimes it hurts it hurts to even laugh
And it hurts like hell
That’s the way
Oh baby
That’s the way it feels