About the song
“Waiting on a Friend” by The Rolling Stones is a heartfelt ballad that showcases a softer, more reflective side of the iconic rock band. Released on November 30, 1981, as the second single from their album “Tattoo You”, this track stands out as a poignant expression of companionship and the value of meaningful connections. It is a song that resonates deeply, appealing to listeners with its warmth, simplicity, and universal message.
The origins of “Waiting on a Friend” trace back to the early 1970s during the recording sessions for the band’s landmark album “Goats Head Soup” (1973). Although the song wasn’t completed or released at the time, its rediscovery and subsequent inclusion on “Tattoo You” gave it a new life. The decision to revisit the track proved to be a masterstroke, as its gentle rhythm and lyrical depth perfectly complemented the overall tone of the album, which was a mix of rock anthems and tender ballads.
At its heart, “Waiting on a Friend” is a celebration of friendship and the enduring bonds that transcend the fleeting nature of romantic relationships. Mick Jagger’s lyrics reflect a sense of maturity and introspection, as he sings about the joys of simply being present and valuing the companionship of a trusted friend. The song eschews the traditional themes of love and heartbreak often found in The Rolling Stones’ music, opting instead for a focus on connection and camaraderie.
Musically, the song is a masterpiece of subtlety and elegance. Keith Richards’ signature guitar work provides a warm and inviting foundation, while Charlie Watts’ steady drumming and Bill Wyman’s understated bassline create a relaxed, easygoing groove. However, one of the standout elements of the track is the soulful saxophone solo by jazz legend Sonny Rollins, whose contributions elevate the song to a new level of emotional resonance. Rollins’ performance adds a layer of richness and sophistication, perfectly complementing the song’s introspective theme.
The accompanying music video, filmed in the East Village of New York City, further enhances the song’s narrative of friendship. Featuring Mick Jagger and Keith Richards sharing a moment on the stoop of a building before heading to a bar to meet the rest of the band, the video captures the laid-back, heartfelt essence of the song.
“Waiting on a Friend” was met with critical acclaim upon its release and has since become one of The Rolling Stones’ most beloved ballads. Its universal themes and timeless melody have ensured its enduring appeal. For a band known for their swaggering rock ‘n’ roll persona, this track is a testament to their versatility and emotional depth, proving that even the world’s greatest rock stars can find profound beauty in the simple act of waiting on a friend.
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Lyrics
Watching girls go passing byIt ain’t the latest thingI’m just standing in a doorwayI’m just trying to make some senseOut of these girls that passing byThe tales they tell of menI’m not waiting on a ladyI’m just waiting on a friendMmm, a smile relieves a heart that grievesRemember what I saidI’m not waiting on a ladyI’m just waiting on a friendI’m just waiting on a friendJust waiting on a friendI’m just waiting on a friendI’m just waiting on a friendI’m just waiting on a friendMmm, don’t need a whore, I don’t need no boozeDon’t need a virgin priestBut I need someone I can cry toI need someone to protectMmm, making love and breaking heartsIt is a game for youthBut I’m not waiting on my ladyI’m just waiting on a friendI’m just waiting on a friendJust waiting on a friendWaiting on a friendI’m just waiting on a friendJust waiting on a friendWaiting on a friendWaiting on a friend